Last night DH and I were watching that new statistic show. It just happen to be about how your most likely way to die. Of course before we even started watching I bet DH the most likely way would be in a car. Mind you this is my biggest fear, ever since I was little, way before I ever "needed" to buy a carseat.
Sure enough I was right. They said 1 in 88 people will die in an automobile accident :thumbsdown::thumbsdown:
Anywho... it got me in a mood (the show and witnessing a family members very poor restraining of her kids earlier that day) where I felt the need to post something about it on my FB. I rarely ever do as Im VERY to each their own. When people comment on a picture or my kids in seats (or ask for help because they know Im knowlagable on the subject) Ive always felt is the best time and place for me to explain why and what I do what I do. My 6 year old spoke up to the family member while riding with them and pointed out how unsafe they rode in the car. I wasnt even with them and if he had the guts to do that at only 6 I could have it in me to post on FB for the parents that honestly have no clue about car safety. When ds got in my car and told me about it, and that he rode in his booster correctly, I was soooo damn proud of him!!
I posted this:
Odds of dying in a car... 1 in 88!!! Riding/driving in a car is one of the most deadly things we do. Seat belts and carseats do NOT save lives if your not using them CORRECTLY You can be the best driver in the world but that doesn't mean the idiot driving next to you is. On a side note; Rear facing until your child is at least 2 years old is the new recommendation. You think a rear facing carseat is restricting? Imagine how restricting a wheelchair or even worse a coffin is :/
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CLOSE FRIEND- We had ava turned around before she was one.
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CLOSE FRIEND- she cried at the top of her lungs, when we turned her around she was fine
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MYSELF- To each their own. I just couldn't live with myself knowing I could have prevented injuries just by leaving a carseat rear facing longer :/ It's just something that is so easily prevented and really hits home for me. My older 2 were flipped at one year because that's what their dr said you do. But now that I know better I do better It's not just a little bit safer it's 5 times safer.
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MYSELF- I want my kids to have the best chance if we ever happen to be in another accident. Just like I make sure they wear coats in the cold, eat when their hungry, rest when their sick and brush their teeth before bed. It's just something we do
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FRIEND #2- my son is still rear facing i didnt like the idea of it cuz its hard to see him that way but since its safer thats the way he stays!! their safety should come way before our own opinions no matter what.
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MYSELF- Absolutely I feel like that's our job as parents, to know and do what's best for them regardless of what they or anyone else thinks
Believing or not believing its important doesn't change the statistics or the laws of physics. It's just sad how lightly it's taken when it's such a serious problem. So many adults and kids could be saved if we just took the extra 30 seconds to buckle up properly.
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UGGHH... I just dont even know why she had to post that. I get it, you dont agree... keep it moving. She doesnt even have kids for crying out loud!! Its her niece shes talking about. I KNOW she is now going to be mad at me and not call and not include me for a few weeks.
Its honestly not that bad but its really getting under my skin. So much so that this morning I felt the need to post a pic of dd from a couple weeks ago rfing, with a whole spew about everyone constantly commenting on her still being rfing. Its my child people. If shes rfing or ffing its MY decision!!!! I dont push my beliefs on anyone one else and I shouldnt have to listen to anyone do it to me
I posted this picture and this comment. It made me feel a ton better knowing so many people "support" my decision and liked the photo.
I can't count how many times people have said "she's not a baby" "she's uncomfortable" "she's too big to sit like that". It's not about being a baby at all. It drives me crazy. Does she look even remotely uncomfortable?!? Have you ACTUALY read your carseat manual? It's not 1985 they are made to rear face alot longer because it's so much safer. K*** is 2 1/2 and 32lbs, still rear facing 90% of the time. What seems uncomfortable to me is when she does ride forward facing and her head flops down when she's sleeping or she constantly kicking my seat because she wants her feet up.
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MYSELF- And I'm not saying its for everyone and every situation, but don't knock it before you try it. Do your research and make YOUR own educated decision.
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Im not perfect and I never claim to be. Im the first person to say Im wrong when I am. But gosh dang it I do try to be the best parent I can. I get so sick of the negativity people bring.
Sure enough I was right. They said 1 in 88 people will die in an automobile accident :thumbsdown::thumbsdown:
Anywho... it got me in a mood (the show and witnessing a family members very poor restraining of her kids earlier that day) where I felt the need to post something about it on my FB. I rarely ever do as Im VERY to each their own. When people comment on a picture or my kids in seats (or ask for help because they know Im knowlagable on the subject) Ive always felt is the best time and place for me to explain why and what I do what I do. My 6 year old spoke up to the family member while riding with them and pointed out how unsafe they rode in the car. I wasnt even with them and if he had the guts to do that at only 6 I could have it in me to post on FB for the parents that honestly have no clue about car safety. When ds got in my car and told me about it, and that he rode in his booster correctly, I was soooo damn proud of him!!
I posted this:
Odds of dying in a car... 1 in 88!!! Riding/driving in a car is one of the most deadly things we do. Seat belts and carseats do NOT save lives if your not using them CORRECTLY You can be the best driver in the world but that doesn't mean the idiot driving next to you is. On a side note; Rear facing until your child is at least 2 years old is the new recommendation. You think a rear facing carseat is restricting? Imagine how restricting a wheelchair or even worse a coffin is :/
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CLOSE FRIEND- We had ava turned around before she was one.
12 hours ago · Like
MYSELF-
12 hours ago via mobile · Like
CLOSE FRIEND- she cried at the top of her lungs, when we turned her around she was fine
12 hours ago · Like
MYSELF- To each their own. I just couldn't live with myself knowing I could have prevented injuries just by leaving a carseat rear facing longer :/ It's just something that is so easily prevented and really hits home for me. My older 2 were flipped at one year because that's what their dr said you do. But now that I know better I do better It's not just a little bit safer it's 5 times safer.
12 hours ago via mobile · Like · 4
MYSELF- I want my kids to have the best chance if we ever happen to be in another accident. Just like I make sure they wear coats in the cold, eat when their hungry, rest when their sick and brush their teeth before bed. It's just something we do
12 hours ago via mobile · Like · 4
FRIEND #2- my son is still rear facing i didnt like the idea of it cuz its hard to see him that way but since its safer thats the way he stays!! their safety should come way before our own opinions no matter what.
4 hours ago · Unlike · 2
MYSELF- Absolutely I feel like that's our job as parents, to know and do what's best for them regardless of what they or anyone else thinks
Believing or not believing its important doesn't change the statistics or the laws of physics. It's just sad how lightly it's taken when it's such a serious problem. So many adults and kids could be saved if we just took the extra 30 seconds to buckle up properly.
3 hours ago via mobile · Like · 2
UGGHH... I just dont even know why she had to post that. I get it, you dont agree... keep it moving. She doesnt even have kids for crying out loud!! Its her niece shes talking about. I KNOW she is now going to be mad at me and not call and not include me for a few weeks.
Its honestly not that bad but its really getting under my skin. So much so that this morning I felt the need to post a pic of dd from a couple weeks ago rfing, with a whole spew about everyone constantly commenting on her still being rfing. Its my child people. If shes rfing or ffing its MY decision!!!! I dont push my beliefs on anyone one else and I shouldnt have to listen to anyone do it to me
I posted this picture and this comment. It made me feel a ton better knowing so many people "support" my decision and liked the photo.
I can't count how many times people have said "she's not a baby" "she's uncomfortable" "she's too big to sit like that". It's not about being a baby at all. It drives me crazy. Does she look even remotely uncomfortable?!? Have you ACTUALY read your carseat manual? It's not 1985 they are made to rear face alot longer because it's so much safer. K*** is 2 1/2 and 32lbs, still rear facing 90% of the time. What seems uncomfortable to me is when she does ride forward facing and her head flops down when she's sleeping or she constantly kicking my seat because she wants her feet up.
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MYSELF- And I'm not saying its for everyone and every situation, but don't knock it before you try it. Do your research and make YOUR own educated decision.
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Im not perfect and I never claim to be. Im the first person to say Im wrong when I am. But gosh dang it I do try to be the best parent I can. I get so sick of the negativity people bring.