Hi there! I'm in a similar situation, though kid 1 will be 3.5 and husband is 6'9". We drive a mazda 3 and a honda accord.
The husband over here can't sit in front of any RF seat. Our solution has been to leave a place for him to sit behind the driver. So I'm looking at attempting to get a seat in the middle for when we are four people in the car, and having an adult in the back. When we are two kids, one short driver, I'll put a baby behind the short driver. When we are one tall driver and one preschooler, I'll take the baby's seat out so that one parent can drive one child. When we are one tall driver and two kids (the least likely scenerio), I'll consider FFing the preschooler, something I'd like to avoid until he's 4.
I'm not that familiar with the Honda Fit (it doesn't Fit us, even pre-kids, it turns out), but I would try a radian next to a coccoro pretty much anywhere: I've seen that fit in another member's Mazda 3, which is very narrow. I would also try a RF radian with an angle adjuster in the center behind my husband pretty much anywhere: that doesn't work in our Mazda, but it has made such a huge difference in other cars that it's on the top of my list of tall driver tricks.
If your 2.5 year old can still fit in his or her britax and your husband can drive in front of that, I'd stay in it as long as humanly possible (my 2.5 year old no longer fit any britax RF) and then maybe look at a Coccoro for the baby.
A complete air would not be my first choice for two reasons: first, it only allows RFing to 40" of total height, for me that would have been until before my kid's 3rd birthday, and second, it has a less generous rule about the angle of installation than a radian does, though supposedly the new ones have two angle indicators. These are rules that some members on here don't follow, but I'm a stickler for rules. Even for me, at only 5'8", I'd rather sit in front of a Radian with an angle adjuster.
My LATCH manual makes no mention of airbag sensors in the driver's seat: is that information from your Fit's manual? Your car's manual is certainly more authoritative than my LATCH manual, but often these things are different on the driver's and passenger's side.
It depends on the 6'6" person's proportions, but a simple trick for getting more space is to sit as upright as possible. You gain a lot of front to back room by not reclining the seat more than is absolutely necessarily, it's safer for the adult, and I've come to prefer it. That depends on the person, however: the recline is the only way some tall people can see out the top of the windshield.