navy wife
New member
I am flying home for Christmas in about a month and have been debating back and forth about whether to bring a carseat for my toddler or rent a CARES Harness. It will be my 18 month old daughter, my 3 month old daughter, and myself. The trip is two parts about an hour and a half each part. My 18 month old is very big for her age being 25 lbs and over 33 inches tall so her size isn't an issue. I think she would stay in her seat with the harness not having a crotch strap. I know she would be more comfortable and stay put better in a carseat but the thought of tryin.g wrangle two children and a carseat once on the airplane is so daunting. If I do opt for the harness, my family has carseats available for us to use once we arrive. The 3 month old will be held as a lap child (not my favorite option, but that is what our budget requires). What would you recommend I do in this situation?