mlohry
New member
I just bang my head against the wall when I try to talk to family about car seat safety. With friend's I have no problems telling them what to do and they are always appreciative and almost always thank me and follow my advice.
My aunt who pretty much is the primary care giver or her 2 grand kids is horrible, even though my mom and I both have talked to her. Yesterday I had to ride back from a shower with my aunt and her just 4 year old granddaughter. I knew it would be bad. She was riding in her brothers old seat and he is 12. The harness was on the top slots, but she was still too tall for it. I tried to buckle her in, just to make sure it was in tight, but the girl is very opinionated and wouldn'tlet me. My aunt buckled her in, she reached behind the seat to tighten the harness I think??? It was obviously way loose from the seat. The chest clip was not a buckle one, you just slide the belt thru it. I didn't say anything, just prayed we wouldn't crash, then when I got dropped off, she had undone the chest clip. I still didn't say anything. I feel horrible, for not, but seriously she wouldn't have done anything. The girls parents talk about how she always crawls out of the seat, thankfully she slept most of the way this time. My mom even gave them a FF seat one day that was a little expired from my kids that she used as an extra, not anymore for my kids, but she wasn't in anything. Who knows what happened to that. Money isn't an issue. So annoying. It's just feels like a waste of time to talk to family about things like this. There is not one of my family members that use seats correctly. I don't waste my breathe most days anymore, how about you? Now if they are in our car it's a different story!
My aunt who pretty much is the primary care giver or her 2 grand kids is horrible, even though my mom and I both have talked to her. Yesterday I had to ride back from a shower with my aunt and her just 4 year old granddaughter. I knew it would be bad. She was riding in her brothers old seat and he is 12. The harness was on the top slots, but she was still too tall for it. I tried to buckle her in, just to make sure it was in tight, but the girl is very opinionated and wouldn'tlet me. My aunt buckled her in, she reached behind the seat to tighten the harness I think??? It was obviously way loose from the seat. The chest clip was not a buckle one, you just slide the belt thru it. I didn't say anything, just prayed we wouldn't crash, then when I got dropped off, she had undone the chest clip. I still didn't say anything. I feel horrible, for not, but seriously she wouldn't have done anything. The girls parents talk about how she always crawls out of the seat, thankfully she slept most of the way this time. My mom even gave them a FF seat one day that was a little expired from my kids that she used as an extra, not anymore for my kids, but she wasn't in anything. Who knows what happened to that. Money isn't an issue. So annoying. It's just feels like a waste of time to talk to family about things like this. There is not one of my family members that use seats correctly. I don't waste my breathe most days anymore, how about you? Now if they are in our car it's a different story!