So riding in the car this afternoon I hear a strange creaking sound coming from the backseat. When I could safely look back, I saw DS reaching above his head, grabbing the headwings of his Advocate with each tiny little hand and pulling at it forward and backward over and over again!! Of course once he discovered he could do this he would not stop. He was REALLY tugging at them. When we got home I inspected the seat and it looks fine, but I can't imagine he could continue to do this without eventually breaking or stressing something. I wiggled it slightly myself just to see how much it would give and he was definitely yanking on it very hard to get it to the point it made the creaking noises. Put this on top of me finally teaching him to climb into his own seat -he is getting WAY to heavy to lift over w/ my semi-bad back- only to discover he grabs the headwing to steady himself to get in, and I am terrified he is going to destroy our pricey seat!!! Anyone have either of these things happen? Any ideas??