broken4u05
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Ok as some have you have read i have been making a Butterfly garden for a little boy i used to take care of who passed away. Well i have to say something on sunday to 60 people and i want to know what you think of this. It is very sad i am just going to tell you it might make you cry i know i was crying writing it.
A few weeks ago when Naomi asked me to say something today I said yes thinking it would be no big deal. I loved Jake and I have so many memories of him and thinking of something to say would be easy. But it was not easy, each time I tried to think of what to say about Jake I could not think of anything that fit how much he changed my life. He was not just a little boy I took care of a few times a week, Jake and his family became so much more than that. They became my family and for that I want to thank Naomi. She always says how much I do for her but it is her that has helped me. If it was not for her trusting a 14 year old with one of the most important things in her life, her youngest son, my life would be different. Jake was the one that gave me the drive to work with special needs children and to help them as much as Jake has helped me. Because of Jake I no longer look at milestones in a child’s life as just something that each child does. Jake set his own milestones. Parents love to hear their child’s first cry when they are just born and it is such a happy time. Jake’s first cry was at a year old and that is something I will never forget. I miss giving him baths and seeing the smile on his face as his hands hit the water than dressing him another cute outfit so he would be ready to dance to the beach boys with me. I miss feeding him his bottles while reading to him just holding him in my lap. The last time I saw Jake was the saddest memory of all and I will never forget it. He was in the hospital and I was there with my family but after a little while I had to tell them I wanted to be alone. As I was standing there next to the most important two year old in my life I talked to him and just by a few looks I knew this was for the best. He came into this world and changed the lives of many people and it was his time to go. As I was standing there the nurse walked in and hung up drawings that Jeremy and Jessi had made for Super Jake and all I could do was cry but not all of my tears where tears of sadness. They where also joy for all that he had taught me when I thought I was teaching him. All the memories I have of Jake have come back to me as I have worked on this garden and at times I have to stop because I could not see past time tears I had in my eyes. I miss Jake so much and I am glad we now have this garden to always remember him and so others can also know how great of a little boy he really was. I love you Jake
A few weeks ago when Naomi asked me to say something today I said yes thinking it would be no big deal. I loved Jake and I have so many memories of him and thinking of something to say would be easy. But it was not easy, each time I tried to think of what to say about Jake I could not think of anything that fit how much he changed my life. He was not just a little boy I took care of a few times a week, Jake and his family became so much more than that. They became my family and for that I want to thank Naomi. She always says how much I do for her but it is her that has helped me. If it was not for her trusting a 14 year old with one of the most important things in her life, her youngest son, my life would be different. Jake was the one that gave me the drive to work with special needs children and to help them as much as Jake has helped me. Because of Jake I no longer look at milestones in a child’s life as just something that each child does. Jake set his own milestones. Parents love to hear their child’s first cry when they are just born and it is such a happy time. Jake’s first cry was at a year old and that is something I will never forget. I miss giving him baths and seeing the smile on his face as his hands hit the water than dressing him another cute outfit so he would be ready to dance to the beach boys with me. I miss feeding him his bottles while reading to him just holding him in my lap. The last time I saw Jake was the saddest memory of all and I will never forget it. He was in the hospital and I was there with my family but after a little while I had to tell them I wanted to be alone. As I was standing there next to the most important two year old in my life I talked to him and just by a few looks I knew this was for the best. He came into this world and changed the lives of many people and it was his time to go. As I was standing there the nurse walked in and hung up drawings that Jeremy and Jessi had made for Super Jake and all I could do was cry but not all of my tears where tears of sadness. They where also joy for all that he had taught me when I thought I was teaching him. All the memories I have of Jake have come back to me as I have worked on this garden and at times I have to stop because I could not see past time tears I had in my eyes. I miss Jake so much and I am glad we now have this garden to always remember him and so others can also know how great of a little boy he really was. I love you Jake