4boysmom
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This is meant to be a thought provoking PSA on all the places a baby might be left in the car. That it doesn't just happen in work parking lots or the supermarket or mall.
Yesterday we decided to go to the 11 am church service instead of the 9 am one and at a church we'd only been to once before. We were running early so we stopped and fed the ducks about a mile away from the church for 20 minutes before we headed to church. Once we got to church we parked and I got out with the big kids and started walking up the longish path to the church and to the kids check in 'desk' outside the church. DH gets there as I am trying to get kids signed in and I do a head count 1,2,3,4... and I am thinking to myself I have 4 walking, kids okay... um but dh's arms are empty as are mine. So I ask (why I dunno I knew the answer) "where's the baby?" It takes several times of me asking for it to sink in that I don't have the baby and you don't have the baby, the baby is in the van still (!). So dh ran back to the van (about 100/150 yards, he was fine never even knew we'd left and was playing with his pull adjuster). So add church as somewhere baby's can be left. I am thankful we all met at the kids check in and that we don't do the 'you drop baby off in the nursery, and I'll take the preschooler to his class and meet back in the adult church" thing because the reason I knew something was amiss is the baby should have been in one of our arms, and he wasn't. Had I assumed dh took him to nursery or he assumed I did I shutter to wonder what might have been. Thank God for new churches (so not yet comfy enough to leave the baby).
The season where it becomes extra dangerous to leave a kiddo in a vehicle is quickly approaching, so where else might someone accidently leave a kiddo in their seat? Let's take away the idea that 'if I am super careful when I am shopping and I don't work outside the home (so I wouldn't be leaving them at work and not dropping them off at daycare) I am immune from it happening to me' notion.
Yesterday we decided to go to the 11 am church service instead of the 9 am one and at a church we'd only been to once before. We were running early so we stopped and fed the ducks about a mile away from the church for 20 minutes before we headed to church. Once we got to church we parked and I got out with the big kids and started walking up the longish path to the church and to the kids check in 'desk' outside the church. DH gets there as I am trying to get kids signed in and I do a head count 1,2,3,4... and I am thinking to myself I have 4 walking, kids okay... um but dh's arms are empty as are mine. So I ask (why I dunno I knew the answer) "where's the baby?" It takes several times of me asking for it to sink in that I don't have the baby and you don't have the baby, the baby is in the van still (!). So dh ran back to the van (about 100/150 yards, he was fine never even knew we'd left and was playing with his pull adjuster). So add church as somewhere baby's can be left. I am thankful we all met at the kids check in and that we don't do the 'you drop baby off in the nursery, and I'll take the preschooler to his class and meet back in the adult church" thing because the reason I knew something was amiss is the baby should have been in one of our arms, and he wasn't. Had I assumed dh took him to nursery or he assumed I did I shutter to wonder what might have been. Thank God for new churches (so not yet comfy enough to leave the baby).
The season where it becomes extra dangerous to leave a kiddo in a vehicle is quickly approaching, so where else might someone accidently leave a kiddo in their seat? Let's take away the idea that 'if I am super careful when I am shopping and I don't work outside the home (so I wouldn't be leaving them at work and not dropping them off at daycare) I am immune from it happening to me' notion.