sheet metal is *much* thinner "these days", that is for certain!
BUT, cars are so much more safe in a crash, even without technological innovations like airbags. cars today are built around the "Safety cage" concept, where the entire passenger compartment is built to withstand deformation after the most common type of impacts, while sections fore and aft of the passenger compartment are designed to deform and absorb energy during a crash. the structural strength of teh safety cage comes not from the body panels that you see, like the roof skin, door skins, hood and fenders, but from the unibody frame components underneath. some years ago, IIHS did a side by side crash test with a toyota camry. one was a "normal" car, the other had the front bumper skin, hood, and fender removed. the car's skeleton was completely exposed. after the crash, theyh removed the panels from the normal car, and the crumpled front region and passenger compartment region appeard the same in both cars.
also interestingly, despite sheet metal getting thinner, cars keep growing in weight, reflecting the heavier substructures and frame elements that contribute to the increased safety of newer cars.