Momto2whosews
Senior Community Member
I need help. I'm getting more and more anxious to get my 20 (soon to be 21) month old, Lily, weaned. The nursing is getting more and more painful becuase I'm producing less and less so she's sucking harder to get anything.
But we also have issues with her "nursing manners" Try as I might, she won't keep her hands to herself. She wants to hold the boob like a hamburger and digs her little fingernails in. If I hold her hands, she kicks me or puts her feet in my face!
I KNOW that I am ready for her to be done. I used to think that I'd be sad, but after 4 1/2 years of either being pg or nursing, I no longer think I will be sad to let nursing go. I want to wear a normal bra!
Our other issue is sleep. She still wakes to nurse at 4 am, 5 am and is up at 6 am for the day. This is killing me. She sleeps with me; there is no longer room for DH in the bed and nobody gets any sleep (except for Lily) if the 3 of us are together, so DH has been sleeping in the family room for the last few months and we are DONE with that as well! We want our bed back.
I thought we were making progress a month ago. She slept 8 hrs on a mattress beside my bed. But then everybody got sick for 2-3 weeks and all of that progress went out the window. Now we're back to square one and I'm feeling desperate. I feel like cutting her off, cold turkey. But I know that would make her miserable for several days. I'm trying to shorten nursing sessions, but she fights being taken off and clamps down on me with her teeth! Right now I'm trying to distract her with chocolate chips whenever she asks for "num-nums" but that only works for about 5 minutes and I can't have her eating chocolate all day. What else can I do?
DH seems to think it might be easier when she gets a little more verbal - she's still using single words. And maybe when the last of her 2 yr. molars come thought (she has 1 so far). I don't know anymore. It feels like we're grasping at straws and nothing is working.
But we also have issues with her "nursing manners" Try as I might, she won't keep her hands to herself. She wants to hold the boob like a hamburger and digs her little fingernails in. If I hold her hands, she kicks me or puts her feet in my face!
I KNOW that I am ready for her to be done. I used to think that I'd be sad, but after 4 1/2 years of either being pg or nursing, I no longer think I will be sad to let nursing go. I want to wear a normal bra!
Our other issue is sleep. She still wakes to nurse at 4 am, 5 am and is up at 6 am for the day. This is killing me. She sleeps with me; there is no longer room for DH in the bed and nobody gets any sleep (except for Lily) if the 3 of us are together, so DH has been sleeping in the family room for the last few months and we are DONE with that as well! We want our bed back.
I thought we were making progress a month ago. She slept 8 hrs on a mattress beside my bed. But then everybody got sick for 2-3 weeks and all of that progress went out the window. Now we're back to square one and I'm feeling desperate. I feel like cutting her off, cold turkey. But I know that would make her miserable for several days. I'm trying to shorten nursing sessions, but she fights being taken off and clamps down on me with her teeth! Right now I'm trying to distract her with chocolate chips whenever she asks for "num-nums" but that only works for about 5 minutes and I can't have her eating chocolate all day. What else can I do?
DH seems to think it might be easier when she gets a little more verbal - she's still using single words. And maybe when the last of her 2 yr. molars come thought (she has 1 so far). I don't know anymore. It feels like we're grasping at straws and nothing is working.