So P is still rearfacing with us, and will be until she outgrows the radian... but in her mom's car she's ff in a cosco highback that I'm sure she's close to if not already outgrown. This thing is never installed right, in fact on some pictures her mom has on facebook the seat is tipped probably 2 inches, and P is sitting straight nearly over the one side of it . I'm so scared that something is going to happen to her. We've talked to her mom, given her all the information, she truly just doesn't care. I have no doubt that she will not buy another seat for her (She's 2.5 and about 37 lb, nowhere near booster ready) and will probably just use this thing in booster mode with a horrible fit. How do you deal with knowing someone is putting your child at risk... well, let me rephrase... how do you deal with it when she's technically obeying the law and the courts will do nothing, but she doesn't care enough to do the right thing. We have an extra seat (MA or MR)... and I would be more than willing to give her one except chances are she would sell it for the money and keep her in a crap seat. Realistically, I know there's nothing I can do... it's just really stressing me out knowing that she's getting close to the harness limit and we're really between a rock an a hardplace. I will never understand parents that don't care... and this is an ongoing theme with her in every aspect of P's life. Problem is she pulls it together just enough not to lose custody. Sorry... I guess I just needed a vent. Thanks if you made it this far