Thanks for your suggestions! I can't seem to find the cargo tie-down net that I once saw. I am using ratcheting ties for the big stroller/larger items and I'm going to ask the dealer if they know anything about installing tie down clips. Other problem is the entire floor comes right up.. it's a cover for storage. I seriously don't think they thought about this when they designed the cars.
I have started jamming my stroller in the back footwell area. At the very least, it's not going to fly forward and hit them in the face, and it's under the rf tethers so even if it were to fly upward, I think the tethers might seriously impede this movement. (it's not interfering with them right now just sitting there, though. it's a really small umbrella stroller
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I hear you - no one thinks this is a big deal. Everyone seems to have a "well if you're in an accident you're screwed anyway, why bother?" attitude. The husband is humoring me, I'm not sure what he really thinks. I've also purchased a soft crate for the dog and a harness "seat belt" for him. We'd previously been keeping him in a hard plastic crate which I've read aparently explodes on impact... defeating my intended purpose and possibly injuring everyone in the car.
any other suggestions or experience welcome. I am wondering if I should take my trunk cover shade out, at least while they are rear facing. It just clips on.