mamabearof3
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My daughter will be 3 in a month and a half. She is still RF in a Radian with a Blvd for grandma's car now and then.
FF has come up again as 1. She is approaching the age of 3. 2. Winter is just around the corner and those darn towels just don't stay in place well in the 2nd row of a mini van. 3. My daycare baby (2y) is approaching the 35# RF weight limit on her carseat.
My concerns are RF IS safer and that I don't think she is even 30lbs yet. My darling husband is ready for her to be FF and in some ways I am too. I don't even know what y'all can say to help me with this decision. RF is safer and she has at least 5 lbs left. How do you make that decision when your child still has room to grow? What about marital peace? "But it is safer" can only go so far sometimes.
Thanks for your thoughts,
Stacy who is not married to an donkey, just someone who thinks 3yo is reasonable based on science.
PS: And I must confess to being a mom who is tired of going counter culture on everything.
FF has come up again as 1. She is approaching the age of 3. 2. Winter is just around the corner and those darn towels just don't stay in place well in the 2nd row of a mini van. 3. My daycare baby (2y) is approaching the 35# RF weight limit on her carseat.
My concerns are RF IS safer and that I don't think she is even 30lbs yet. My darling husband is ready for her to be FF and in some ways I am too. I don't even know what y'all can say to help me with this decision. RF is safer and she has at least 5 lbs left. How do you make that decision when your child still has room to grow? What about marital peace? "But it is safer" can only go so far sometimes.
Thanks for your thoughts,
Stacy who is not married to an donkey, just someone who thinks 3yo is reasonable based on science.
PS: And I must confess to being a mom who is tired of going counter culture on everything.