Happymom08
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Hi all :happy-wavehello:
My son is 2 yrs 8 mos, 38" tall and about 35 lbs, though I'd have to double check on that to be sure. He is currently RF in a Radian XTSL, which I spent a lot of time researching (mostly on this site) a few months back and decided on because I knew he would outgrow his ETA sooner RF. His height is more in his torso than his legs, but I don't know his torso height right now.
We've been really happy with the arrangement with him in his XTSL, and we love the seat, but my concern is with our car. We have a '98 Honda Civic. The problem is that RF in the center of the backseat, the XTSL rests on our front seats. If I remember correctly, this is okay for the Radian itself, right? I just want to make sure I have that correct before anything else because if that's not even okay, then nothing else matters and we can't use this seat RF in this car.
But as far as it resting on the driver and front passenger seats goes, I believe I had read that this can be a problem because it can possibly interfere with the airbags. I think I also read (on here) that it depends on the car and that some may allow for it - so I checked all over the manual, but didn't find a single thing regarding this.
How do we know about a car that is this old? Does anyone even specifically know about a '98 Civic? My DH is under the impression that it's probably fine, because his thought is that the car is older and probably isn't so advanced that something braced against the seat is going to affect the airbag. (I hope that makes sense - I understand what he's saying but it sounds better coming from him.) But we don't know for sure.
This is where the problem is...I would love to keep DS RF longer and I know he's safest that way. I don't want to have to turn him yet if we don't need to. However I also have to think of our whole family's safety. I don't know if we've been driving around with DH and I not being safe because our airbags may not deploy. If this is a problem with our seats and airbags, then I think I have no choice but to turn DS FF...? There's definitely no way we can always have both seats far enough forward that the car-seat doesn't touch them. For one thing I don't even think our seats go that far forward, plus DH also can't fit to drive if his seat is that far up. Also, I am 14 weeks pregnant so I'll be needing to sit as far back as I can. Again, just trying to think of the whole family's safety KWIM?
I'm sorry this has gotten so long...if anyone has ANY insight on this I'd love to hear it. Just not sure if we even have a choice or not, and uncertain of what to do.
Thank you!!
My son is 2 yrs 8 mos, 38" tall and about 35 lbs, though I'd have to double check on that to be sure. He is currently RF in a Radian XTSL, which I spent a lot of time researching (mostly on this site) a few months back and decided on because I knew he would outgrow his ETA sooner RF. His height is more in his torso than his legs, but I don't know his torso height right now.
We've been really happy with the arrangement with him in his XTSL, and we love the seat, but my concern is with our car. We have a '98 Honda Civic. The problem is that RF in the center of the backseat, the XTSL rests on our front seats. If I remember correctly, this is okay for the Radian itself, right? I just want to make sure I have that correct before anything else because if that's not even okay, then nothing else matters and we can't use this seat RF in this car.
But as far as it resting on the driver and front passenger seats goes, I believe I had read that this can be a problem because it can possibly interfere with the airbags. I think I also read (on here) that it depends on the car and that some may allow for it - so I checked all over the manual, but didn't find a single thing regarding this.
How do we know about a car that is this old? Does anyone even specifically know about a '98 Civic? My DH is under the impression that it's probably fine, because his thought is that the car is older and probably isn't so advanced that something braced against the seat is going to affect the airbag. (I hope that makes sense - I understand what he's saying but it sounds better coming from him.) But we don't know for sure.
This is where the problem is...I would love to keep DS RF longer and I know he's safest that way. I don't want to have to turn him yet if we don't need to. However I also have to think of our whole family's safety. I don't know if we've been driving around with DH and I not being safe because our airbags may not deploy. If this is a problem with our seats and airbags, then I think I have no choice but to turn DS FF...? There's definitely no way we can always have both seats far enough forward that the car-seat doesn't touch them. For one thing I don't even think our seats go that far forward, plus DH also can't fit to drive if his seat is that far up. Also, I am 14 weeks pregnant so I'll be needing to sit as far back as I can. Again, just trying to think of the whole family's safety KWIM?
I'm sorry this has gotten so long...if anyone has ANY insight on this I'd love to hear it. Just not sure if we even have a choice or not, and uncertain of what to do.
Thank you!!