Hi everyone,
Just a quick off-carseat post here about my 5 year old son. We have been dealing with social and behavior issues with him for awhile now and while he has gotten better with age, he still isn't the same as his peers. We are seeing a clinical psychologist right now and she is looking at either ADHD or Asperger's with him. We have no dx right now. I'm also trying to get an appointment with a developmental pediatrician, but that will take a few months to get.
In any case, I just signed him up for Tae Kwon Do classes 1x per/week. I hope he likes them and it is a positive experience for him. He wasn't too sure about the uniform, but I'm hoping to convince him that it is cool. DH thinks we shouldn't sign him up for anything, that school is enough (he is in pre-K), but I think some activities are good for him--especially ones that reinforce discipline and proper behavior. We tried soccer and that didn't work at all for him--he just isn't ready for a team sport yet. Swimming lessons are pretty good as long as he can control his desire to splash and jump in and out of the water, and we want him to learn how to swim for safety reasons as well.
I love my son, it is just hard when he acts "different." Strangers don't know his history so always look at me with this expression of "what type of mom are you!" I just hope I'm doing the right things to help him now.
Just a quick off-carseat post here about my 5 year old son. We have been dealing with social and behavior issues with him for awhile now and while he has gotten better with age, he still isn't the same as his peers. We are seeing a clinical psychologist right now and she is looking at either ADHD or Asperger's with him. We have no dx right now. I'm also trying to get an appointment with a developmental pediatrician, but that will take a few months to get.
In any case, I just signed him up for Tae Kwon Do classes 1x per/week. I hope he likes them and it is a positive experience for him. He wasn't too sure about the uniform, but I'm hoping to convince him that it is cool. DH thinks we shouldn't sign him up for anything, that school is enough (he is in pre-K), but I think some activities are good for him--especially ones that reinforce discipline and proper behavior. We tried soccer and that didn't work at all for him--he just isn't ready for a team sport yet. Swimming lessons are pretty good as long as he can control his desire to splash and jump in and out of the water, and we want him to learn how to swim for safety reasons as well.
I love my son, it is just hard when he acts "different." Strangers don't know his history so always look at me with this expression of "what type of mom are you!" I just hope I'm doing the right things to help him now.