Our niece is clinically obese - she is 54 lbs (not sure of her height at the moment). She is very large and so my MIL went and bought a cheap booster seat at Zellers as this is all she fits in. Our niece has learning issues, emotional issues, etc. and so my MIL or my SIL (her mother) buckle her in, but each time we see her (and to be honest, she looks so huge in this cheapy booster seat) we worry about her safety. We have tried our best to educate them on child safety, but they just don't get it.
They now have our baby niece (8 months old) in her infant seat that she has outgrown as well. We just know that she will probably be put front facing very soon. They are not educated people with a lot of family issues - they think we are overprotective and just like to buy cool baby stuff because we have more money than they do - Um, no! It's because our daughter's safety is the number one priority! They saw our new Radian car seat and thought it was a booster seat, and I quickly reminded them that although our daughter is very tall, she is still only 37lbs, so no booster for her as we want her to remain in harness for as long as her long torso will allow us!
What do you all do with family like this? We admit that we are obsessive about child safety, but feel that our daughter (and soon to be new baby) are our most important gifts. We do tons of research on child gear, safety, etc. and have given them brochures, emails, offered to go to docs with them, to no avail. If something were to happen to our nieces in the way of a car accident we'd feel guilty, but we've tried everything. It's so frustrating! They'd rather spend money (that they don't have as they are unemployed) on manicures then decent baby stuff). These are the same people who used a U.S. car seat in Canada (illegal), use baby walkers (illegal in Canada) and sawed up the crib, and then put back together for 2nd baby as SIL hid pregnancy (as she did with first baby).
What do you all do in these situations? Tiger
They now have our baby niece (8 months old) in her infant seat that she has outgrown as well. We just know that she will probably be put front facing very soon. They are not educated people with a lot of family issues - they think we are overprotective and just like to buy cool baby stuff because we have more money than they do - Um, no! It's because our daughter's safety is the number one priority! They saw our new Radian car seat and thought it was a booster seat, and I quickly reminded them that although our daughter is very tall, she is still only 37lbs, so no booster for her as we want her to remain in harness for as long as her long torso will allow us!
What do you all do with family like this? We admit that we are obsessive about child safety, but feel that our daughter (and soon to be new baby) are our most important gifts. We do tons of research on child gear, safety, etc. and have given them brochures, emails, offered to go to docs with them, to no avail. If something were to happen to our nieces in the way of a car accident we'd feel guilty, but we've tried everything. It's so frustrating! They'd rather spend money (that they don't have as they are unemployed) on manicures then decent baby stuff). These are the same people who used a U.S. car seat in Canada (illegal), use baby walkers (illegal in Canada) and sawed up the crib, and then put back together for 2nd baby as SIL hid pregnancy (as she did with first baby).
What do you all do in these situations? Tiger