My Sweet Blessings
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I really wanna bang my head. A friend on facebook often posts pictures of her nieces and nephews. she has no kids of her own (and no plans to have any at this point). Her one niece ALWAYS makes me cringe because of the carseat use. I've mentioned a few times to my friend, but there is nothing she can do cause it isn't her kid. She totally gets my carseat passion, though. Recently, she posted another horrible picture. I commented... cause I couldn't hold back. I ended up in a "discussion" with the mom, great-aunt, and another friend on the photo comment section. They told me I was wrong, even though I posted links for them to check out. They called me names, tried to take jabs at my extended breastfeeding (nursed DS til he was 2 years, 2 months), ect. I didn't do those things backs, but tried to encourage them to hate me (they said they did, never met me),but please look into the info. The mom said that her husband is a firefighter and that her seat is installed correctly, used correctly, ect. Even though it is very clear that it is not. She stated that her $40,000 has tons of safety features and it will protect her. she stated that she is using LATCH and seat belt so the carseat isn't going anywhere. I tried to tell her she couldn't use LATCH and seatbelt together, but of course told me I was wrong. I tried to tell her that having the straps lose and down by the child's elbow and chest clip at the belly wouldn't hold her baby in, even if the carseat itself stayed in. She, of course, told me I was wrong. Nothing I said or linked made any sort of dent. I don't get why someone would get SO rude and defensive when someone is nicely trying to give information to better protect a child. I was once in her place. I even stated that I did some of the same mistakes, but changed them when I learned that those things weren't safe. I didn't call her names or anything of the sort. Some people are just programmed .... different.. grrr!
And now I want to remove my friend off my facebook page so I can stop seeing photo after photo of bad car seat use... it's just about every single week!
And now I want to remove my friend off my facebook page so I can stop seeing photo after photo of bad car seat use... it's just about every single week!