i drove my big guys to their religious classes this evening & my 2 lil ones fell asleep on the way...i didn;t want to wake them for the hour they would be there so i sat in the car part time & went in the house for a few to start dinner then sat in car again. i then drive back to the church (15min round trip) to pick up the big guys, return home to find out my DD had unbuckeld, at some point & fell back to sleep so she didn;t tell me she wasn't strapped in (she usually tells us she's not ready if we move an inch) i never looked back at her to check on her. OMG i was so with myself for not checking on her again. OMG it wasn't intentional at all but OMG what if something happened i would never have forgiven myself. thank the LORD we returned back home safe & sound. reminder to self: to check & check again before putting the car in gear.